Thursday, January 4, 2018

Why white men view white women who have dated black men so negatively?





When many white women date black men it’s an attack against the masculinity and privilege of white men. That’s just not supposed to happen. White men have so much access in life their exclusive pick of women is or should be included in that access. It looks really bad in a lot of white guys minds when they see white women actually prefer black men. “I have a higher social status than he does, what’s she looking his way for?” says many white men.

The second reason is that the sexual prowess myth is out there and many white men feel that they just cannot compete with black men in this department. The stereotype is out there, we all “know it,” so there’s no sense in pretending it isn’t. Is it true? That doesn’t matter. Perception is everything.

And that makes many white men anxious. Out of the two reasons, this is probably the least important of the two. The attack on white masculinity and privilege is probably the far more damaging of the two.

1 comment:

  1. The IR lifestyle for married couples is exciting for me as it certainly for her. We particularly love the amateur sharing of my wife with 1 or more of her black male friends or 2 of my friends that are young hung and attractive and she is very attracted to them. There are 5 alpha bulls that either work with my wife, live in the town she works in, or are 1 0f the 4 other studs that are exactly her type that I talk to on a regular basis and swap photos of them with hers, She really thrills from knowing they all know who she is and where she works.

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